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I did not know what a person who fits looks like
Similar characters do not make a good fit. A relationship has one axis that mirrors and another that opposes.
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It is not that you met the wrong person.
You were reading two axes as one.
According to the interpersonal circle Kiesler mapped out in 1983, relationships move along two axes. The warmth axis, which measures warmth against coldness, 'matches' — warmth given comes back as warmth. But the dominance axis, which measures leading against following, 'mirrors' — when one side leads, the other follows. Treat both by the same rule, and the relationship keeps missing its mark.
TWO AXES, TWO RULES
Each axis has its own rule
Most relationships go wrong because these two rules get confused. It is the principle of complementarity, set out by Donald Kiesler in 1983.
- The warmth axis follows — treat someone warmly and warmth comes back. Coldly, and cold comes back
- The dominance axis opposes — if one pulls hard, the other gives way. If both pull, they clash
- So 'two people who both lead' clash not from bad character but from the rule of the axis
WHAT IT ACTUALLY TELLS YOU
We do not score compatibility
A score feels satisfying but leaves you nothing to do next. Instead of a score, Moon Pavilion shows you where it goes wrong and what to say when it does.
- Where I usually stand — which of the eight places
- Where you mesh well — worked out from the rules of two axes
- Where you are likely to clash — and what to say differently then
Shown, not told
32 questions · 4 minutes
and it is done
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The eight places
Marked on a circle
Where the warmth axis crosses the dominance axis
Complementarity
is how we read it
Kiesler 1983 · the interpersonal circle
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For you if
This can help if
- you argue about the same thing over and over
- For those who always end up in the same role
- For those who want to know themselves before a new relationship
- For those who want to understand how others react
Plenty of questions, no doubt
Do you need the other person's details?
Stage 1 does not need it. It looks only at where you usually stand. Looking at two people together starts in stage 2.
Do you give a compatibility score?
We do not give a score. Knowing the number does not produce anything to do next. Instead we give you where it goes wrong, and one line to try saying at that moment.
Is it all right if I have no dating experience?
Yes. The items ask about how you treat people, not about romance. They apply just as well at work or in the family.
Where do the items come from?
Rewritten in Korean from the IPIP items mapped to the interpersonal circumplex. The eight positions and the complementarity calculation follow Kiesler's (1983) circumplex model.
Will you make decisions like marriage or breaking up for me?
We will not make it for you. That is not a judgement but a choice, and Moon Pavilion only supplies the material. If there is violence or abuse in the relationship, please go to a professional service first, not a test.
Are my answers stored?
Stage 1 sends nothing to a server. Your answers and results stay in your own browser.
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32-question test
You don't need to know who the other person is. First, we plot where you tend to stand with people on a circle, then see which position fits best alongside it.
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